Everyday I thank the stars for giving me the ability to live, love and laugh. If these emotions were not a part of my life, I would be known as “The Sad Guy.” With friends and family knowing how adamant I feel about love, I frequently get asked questions regarding the “feeling of fondness.” Recently, I was asked “Hey Love Guy, where do you find love during tragedy?” That question made me think, but it didn’t take long for me to find my answer. My answer came from the heart, and I could not sum it up in two or three sentences; My answer was simple and I could sum it up in two words: love wins. Make love win all the time. We are constantly seeing tragic events unfold in the news, we deal with tragedy within our personal lives as well. We will never escape tragedy, but we can turn tragedy into positivity. We need to let love win. I know some might be laughing to themselves or shaking their head in disbelief as they read this, but I truly believe if you put your mind into allowing love to win, you can make it happen. Mind over matter, right?

I never want negativity to consume my life. I personally denounce anger when I think it is trying to engross my spirit. I find a way to let love win. I understand as individuals we face different life adversities, and during these tough intervals we react differently. With that being said, well…typed; I believe we should try and focus on the good, the positive and the love that can be mentally summoned from a tragic event. Some tragedy is worse than others, and summoning love can be extremely difficult. This is when you have to call to the depths of your being and find the love I am writing about. It is there. I swear.

If we allow hate, sadness and negativity to prevail, we will never grow spiritually as a community. Love is spiritual, no matter what your beliefs are. Love also gives us a since of community, and communities build individuals.

Love builds us.

This is how I face times of tragedy. I call on love. I understand that it is difficult, I understand that many could not do it, but that would have to be for lack of trying. Grieving and sadness is healthy and should be a part of the healing process during tragedy, though do not let grieving and sadness consume your life.  Call on love and let it become a part of the healing process; let it consume your life.

Love wins.

One Response to “Love Wins.”

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   January 23, 2011 at 2:40 pm

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